Planning a wedding should be exciting, not overwhelming! Of course there will always be some anticipation involved, but you can avoid much of the stress. In this post, we’ll examine some of the pitfalls that trip up even the most organized couples – and how to avoid them.
1. Starting without a budget
Money conversations aren’t fun, but they’re necessary. Before picking venues or dresses, decide what you can actually afford. This prevents the heartbreak of falling in love with options beyond your means.
2. Neglecting the guest list before venue shopping
That stunning venue won’t work if it only fits 75 people and you’re inviting 150. Know your approximate headcount before touring spaces.
3. Booking vendors without research
That photographer with the amazing Instagram profile? Make sure they have reviews, a contract, and backup equipment. Always check references and read the fine print.
4. Forgetting about hidden costs
Transportation between venues, service fees, overtime charges, and vendor meals can add thousands to your total. Ask about ALL possible charges upfront.
5. Skipping the timeline
A wedding day moves fast! Without a minute-by-minute schedule for your vendors and wedding party, chaos ensues. Build in buffer time for inevitable delays.
6. Ignoring the weather plan
Outdoor ceremonies need solid backup plans. Don’t wait until the forecast shows rain three days before your wedding to figure this out.
7. DIYing too much
Those Pinterest projects look deceptively simple. Be realistic about your skills, time, and stress tolerance. Some things are absolutely worth paying professionals to handle.
8. Neglecting to feed yourself
Many couples forget to eat on their wedding day. Assign someone to make sure you actually consume something during cocktail hour and reception.
9. Overlooking guest comfort
Long gaps between ceremony and reception, lack of shade and heating, insufficient seating, or cash bars when guests expect open bar can all lead to grumbling attendees.
10. Missing the fine print
Read every contract completely. Know cancellation policies, payment schedules, and exactly what’s included in your packages.
11. Forgetting it’s about both of you
Make sure you’re both represented in the celebration, even if one handles more logistics. It’s the big day that celebrates both of you, so you want to be sure you’re both making the big decisions.
12. Losing perspective
When you’re deep in centerpiece decisions and family drama, remember what matters: you’re celebrating your commitment to each other. The perfect day isn’t about perfect details—it’s about meaningful moments.
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